Life is about so much. It seems to change daily on how we look at things. Some days I let life flow, some days I try and control how it goes. Other days I wonder what happened to the day at the end of the day and then there are those days that drag and seem a week long. It seems to be all in how we look at life. Looking back, I remember different things on different days. Always seems to be the small things, not the huge events. I remember people and things that we have done together. I remember mistakes I have made and think, that was not the brightest thing to do, I certainly learned from that one. I definitely remember NOT doing something I wished I would have. But, again, that time has passed, all I can do is learn from it. Planning ahead does not seem to get you anywhere if it is not supposed to be what is supposed to happen to you. I planned, saved and worked for 15 years, only to have it all change in an instant...and life did what it would have regardless. Today has been a musing of life, past...present...future. All I can do is take it one day at a time and learn I am not in control. It really makes things much easier that way.